Service Spotlight

ROOM AT THE INN — SERVICE SPOTLIGHT WITH MOTHER’S REFUGE

Written by VolunteerMark contributor Anna Spady of anna.spadydesign.com

“She softly said, ‘I now have no home again.’ Those six little words, ‘I now have no home again,’ will forever echo in my mind.”

Those are the words of Mother’s Refuge executive director Robert Zornes, describing his memory of the fire that destroyed their community home the night of Oct. 8, 2012.

Mother’s Refuge is a nonprofit organization dedicated to giving young, single pregnant women a loving and supportive home. I had the distinct pleasure of interviewing Mandy Taylor, the nonprofit’s volunteer coordinator, and what struck me most about her description of their organization is how everyone becomes “family.”

“Sometimes people act as if we enable bad girls,” Taylor said. “But really, these girls have had real issues. They’re at-risk, even been homeless. Many have never really even been parented. They just want someone to listen, love them and be there for them. It’s something most of them have never had.”

The organization is dedicated to unconditionally loving and supporting new mothers, while simultaneously preparing them for life on their own. Their cozy home is filled with up to nine young women and five babies at any given time and is intentionally longer-term than other similar programs — up to almost two years. That duration uniquely enables the staff to tailor their support to the individual needs of each woman and child.

Core values of the program include:

  • Stability The linchpin of the nonprofit is a solid home base. According to Taylor, it’s oftentimes the “first real home the women have ever had.”
  • Education The program requires the women to further their education, pursuing either a GED, high school diplomaor college degree.
  • Life Skills Money management, cooking and managing a home are just a few of the lessons taught.
  • Resources When desired the staff helps facilitate adoptions, provide nursery equipment and baby clothes as well as host an after-care program for their graduates.

In their pasts, these women often faced homelessness. Like Zornes relayed, last year’s house fire forced them to face it again. Not all girls have been rejected by their families, but most have been living friend to friend or in at-risk environments all their lives.

That’s why so many have been laboring to restore the Mother’s Refuge house. Taylor reported that since the fire, there have been volunteers on site working every day towards rebuilding the structure. And they still need help.

The organization’s greatest current needs are help with manning its upcoming garage sale and transforming its once-ravished home into a more cozier one. They specifically need people willing to volunteer with construction, plumbing, sheetrock and cleanup. The goal is to move the families back in by midsummer of this year and be settled in by August. Follow them on Facebook for complete updates on the rebuild.

Lastly, Taylor makes a point of telling volunteers that if they don’t see an opportunity that appeals to them, just let her know what does. She has volunteers doing everything from gardening to training mentors to helping moms get set up for apartment life.

“Everyone has something to offer,” Taylor said.

What is your something?

For a list of current volunteer opportunities with Mother’s Refuge, visit the nonprofit’s VolunteerMark page and sign-up today.

SERVICE SPOTLIGHT WITH GILLIS

In this week’s charity Service Spotlight, Jennifer Hurst of Gillis takes a few minutes to provide some insight into one of Kansas City’slargest at-risk children organizations.

Q: Why is Gillis important to volunteer with? What is the organization’s mission?

A: Our mission is to help at-risk children and families reach their potential through counseling, education and social services. In choosing to volunteer with Gillis, you are choosing to help children heal from trauma by providing positivity and hope.

Q: For those that don’t know, who do you serve?

A: We serve over 4,300 individuals each year. We serve children and families over eight metro counties.

Q: As far as what Gillis provides, can you give the readers an insight into the services and programs offered?

A: We offer residential care for children, emergency shelter for children, a day treatment school for children and we work in homes with hundreds of families through our community-based program.

Q: Looking forward, what is the future for Gillis? Any special projects or upcoming events that you are excited about?

A: We would like the ability to expand our emergency shelter services as well as offer new opportunities through our day treatment school and residential care. We recently built a brand new deck onto one of our buildings and next we would like to renovate some class rooms as well as our boy’s bedrooms.  We have our school carnival this month and the holiday season is here.  We need lots of help providing Christmas to the hundreds of families we serve.

Q: Lastly, for you personally, what do you enjoy most about working at Gillis? Why is it important to you?

A: I absolutely love our kids. I feel so honored to be a part of giving kids hope for their future and healing from their past. I love that Gillis works with families so that we are ensuring that our work with the children we serve will be a success.

SERVICE SPOTLIGHT WITH KC PET PROJECT

In this week’s Service Spotlight, Tori Fugate of the KC Pet Project takes a few minutes to talk about one of the largest pet adoption operations in Kansas City.

Q: Why is volunteering at the KC Pet Project important?

A: With KC Pet Project, we take in the most animals of any shelter in Kansas City and we definitely have a high need for volunteers here. We do so much on a daily basis that we could not operate without our volunteers.

In the mornings we host playgroups with most of our available dogs, if not all of them, to get them out and stretch their legs. It helps them be a dog for 30 to 45 minutes and so we need volunteers to run dogs back and forth. It’s a huge part of our daily activities. And of course in the afternoons we need volunteers to come out and walk the dogs.

We truly have a lot of fun and have different opportunities to help. If you are not into walking dogs, we do daily transports between our facilities. If we have a dog that needs to go to a vet clinic or something like that, we rely on volunteers to help transport them. We have people who come in and sew blankets for our cats and dogs. We hold the mindset that if you have a talent, we want to utilize it.

Q: What is the overall mission of the organization?

A: To start, our main goal when we took over operations of the Kansas City, Missouri shelter was to truly be a safety net for animals here in the Kansas City area. For a long time, this shelter had been a high-kill shelter and let’s just say, you really didn’t want your dog to come here.

We wanted to change the mindset of the people of Kansas City that if their dog got lost or picked up by somebody and came here, that it would be safe until they came and got it. And for the dogs that weren’t reclaimed by their owners, we wanted to do our very best to find them permanent and loving homes.

We wanted to operate the shelter as a no-kill shelter and we have now done that for over a full year. With that, we are now the fourth largest open admission no-kill shelter in the United States and that is a pretty big thing for Kansas City. We are really proud of the all the work that has happened here since day one.

Q: How large is the shelter’s service area?

A: It’s all of Kansas City, Missouri, both north and south of the river. All the way up to the airport, clear down towards the Grandview Triangle and both ways east and west.

It’s a really large area with about 500,000 people and we take in more than 8,000 pets a year, not just dogs and cats, but anything that is brought to us. We had two dwarf hamsters that came in, we have two goats right now and recently had a Burmese python come in.

We take in so much, but these are Kansas City’s hometown pets so we are really hoping that Kansas City steps up and helps their pets. We are the ones who are there for them and we want the community to be there as well.

Q: What sort of future aspirations does the KC Pet Project hold?

A: The first one would be to get a new shelter. The one we are in right now has been here since 1972 and it’s way past its shelf life. It’s far too small to take in the all pets that are coming in and with more and more coming in every year, we definitely need a new building here in Kansas City.

It would be something that Kansas City residents could be proud of. This place was never meant to be an adoption facility and we’ve tried to turn it into one the best we could. Of course, we opened up a location in Zona Rosa to help that adoption process because with all the intakes, we needed another outlet to get them out into new homes.

Getting animals out into the community as oppose to potential new owners having to come to the shelter is a big thing for us. We do a lot of offsite adoption events and outreach events, and we are always looking to do more.

A new shelter, though, would be the icing on the cake.

Q: Lastly, for you personally, why is the KC Pet Project a worthwhile cause?

A: I love working here because every day I’m inspired by the people I work with. Every day we come to work knowing that there is going to be a life that needs saving and a animal that needs help and we are here to help them.

Getting an opportunity to market all of these wonderful, beautiful pets and trying to get them into new homes is such a rewarding opportunity. It’s a fun job. It’s not just playing with puppies all day long as I think a lot of people would imagine. You see some really heartbreaking things and knowing that you are the ones that are going to be helping them every day is amazing.

Seeing all these animals go out to new homes is about the most rewarding experience you can imagine. A lot of happy faces every day.